Keep it classy
No sexual content of any kind. This isn't a hookup site, and posts that read like one won't go up. We button this down hard — no solicitation, period.
Safety & community rules
OurCrossedPath is a place for good memories and second chances, so we keep it kind. Be warm, be respectful, and remember there's a real person on the other side of every moment.
No ads or selling
Posts are for people, not promotions. Money asks, payment apps and “send $” language are blocked automatically.
Protect everyone's privacy
No full names, phone numbers, emails, links or home addresses in posts. Replies stay private through the site until both people choose to share.
Every post is reviewed
A real person reads each post before it goes live, so the board stays a place you'd be happy to show your grandmother.
18+ only
You confirm your age on entry. Accounts for minors are not allowed.
Paid replies deter creeps
Every reply is tied to a verified Stripe or PayPal payment ($0.99). That paper trail makes harassment expensive and rare. Approved replies reach the poster through a private relay — emails stay hidden.
Report & block
On every post. We review reports quickly. Three reports automatically pull a post back into the review queue.
Meet in public
If you ever meet offline: daytime, public place, tell a friend, arrange your own ride home. Never send money to anyone you met here.
Rate limits & enforcement
Visitors can post only a few times per day. Automated filters catch phones, emails, links, explicit words and solicitation language before a human ever sees the queue. Repeat violations mean a permanent ban.